Roughly a half billion people interact on Facebook every day, with
many more engaging in other social networking sites. With all these
friends, it would seem that social networking followers have a great
support system and a happy life. New research points out, however, that
Facebook may actually be undermining well-being and life satisfaction.
Researchers at the University of Michigan examined two weeks of
Facebook use and concluded that the more people use Facebook, the more
negative they feel about their life moment-to-moment, and the more
dissatisfied they were with their life in general over time. The results
were not affected by gender, self-reported loneliness, baseline
symptoms of depression, the size of the social network, the motivation
for using Facebook, or the perceived level of support from Facebook
friends.
Several other studies have reported negative associations with social
networking, including tension between romantic partners. Social
networking sites foster attachment issues, uncertainty, and partner
surveillance, all of which lead to negative relationship outcomes.
Another study reported that the use of social networking sites leads to
decreased intimacy in relationships, mostly owing to perceptions about
the quality and quantity of the romantic partner’s use of social
networking. Divorce and cheating has also been attributed to Facebook,
especially in relationships that are less than 3 years old.
Social networking sites appear to offer a means for individuals with
low self-esteem or difficulties establishing and maintaining
interpersonal relationships to grow relationships and share connections
with other people. However, these individuals most in need of positive
social relationships actually suffer from social networking sites owing
to an inability to communicate appropriately and negative reactions from
other people, which led to lower self-esteem and negative effects on
well-being in several studies.
All of this is not to say that there are no benefits to social
networking, or that all people who use it end up depressed and
dissatisfied with life. Patients with chronic illnesses or rare
conditions are able to find information on their diseases and gain
support from others around the globe, which has led to improved disease
education and clinical outcomes. And, younger people who have grown up
in the digital age are living proof of the transformation of intimate
relationships. For many in this demographic, larger Internet-based
social networks lead to higher levels of life satisfaction and social
support. The internet may offer permanent relationships in a mobile
world.
Most people spend their days constantly connected to things (phones,
computers, tablets) and not to other people. Growing a digital network
of people who “like” you, “share” things with you, and want to be your
“friend” does not, at least according to recent research, create
life-sustaining, life-fulfilling friendships. Social networks can
certainly be used in a healthy, appropriate way and offer a modern way
to communicate. But, they cannot replace true, meaningful relationships
that lead to improved overall well-being.